...very carefully. [It's hard to really give advice on the matter, on either matters, because a.) Roxas was born and immediately gained friends in the forms of Axel and Xion and has never really gotten the hang of genuinely making friends on his own and b.) because the truth sucks. The truth always sucks.

But then again...there are the people like Naoto and Grune who he considers friends. How did he gain them? Maybe this isn't too hard to think on after all.]

The best way is probably finding someone who has the same interests as you though...what do you like to do?